91: Tensions Of Life: Part Two – Novel Vs. Mundane
In this episode, Than Ringler and Adam Setser discuss the tensions of life and the balance between novelty and mundanity within our daily life. Learn what novelty really looks like, and the responsibility brought to each of us through it as Thane and Adam dives into technology and the effects it has on people through advertisements that give a sense of addiction to novel things. Lastly, hear about the intentionality with the novel and mundane, how novelty affects mundanity, and their thoughts on why people should find the beauty in the mundane.
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Tensions Of Life: Part Two – Novel Vs. Mundane
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If you want yours read on air, drop us a line and maybe you’ll get Adam’s sexy southern voice to give it a little read. We’re going to do a second part of the Tensions of Life series where Adam and I unpack some of the layers of this mantra we created because life has a lot of tension. We’re going to pick a few and unpack them. This is the second part. The tension that I thought would be fun to unpack is the tension between novelty and mundane, meaning something new versus something normal and how that affects us in daily life. This was something that hits close to home for me because I got back from a little family ski trip.
To give a little context on that, I journaled and I realized that in coming back to the normal life, on the day we were leaving, which was Sunday, I found myself retracting into a reflective, quiet and pensive person with my family. I was in a sense getting myself a preservation side of me to kick in to say, “I don’t have too big of a crash after this mountain top high.” Being on the mountain is my favorite place to be. If I could pick one place to go to before I die, it would be snowboarding on mountain. It’s that epic. Because it was such a mountain top high, I knew that coming back to normal life would be a big crash to the valley low.
That Sunday, I didn’t even consciously do this, I was subconsciously getting myself reacclimated to more of a normal life because I knew that the crash was going to come, and it did. Sunday was a downer of a day flying back home and knowing all the things I had to do, the week ahead and how that experience was in the past and not the present. What’s interesting as I journaled about it, I naturally did that without even thinking it. It shows this ebb and flow between novelty and mundane, and it’s something we all experience in daily life. That’s why I thought this was a fitting topic for us to even chat about.
To pose a question to you, Adam, where do you see novelty versus mundane? Where do you see that in daily or weekly life for you? The follow-up question after we talk about that would be, what percentage do you see as a healthy balance in the middle that each should deserve? What amount should each have in daily life? Some people tend to fall much more on the novelty side naturally and some much more on the mundane side naturally. I’d love to hear maybe how you experience these two parallel parts of life.
I don’t know if I have a good grip on this. I have this feeling inside me that goes, “Uh-oh,” when I’m getting off one way or the other a little bit and I’m also biased against one. My wife says that certain guys give her the uh-oh feeling and that I’ll never understand what that means. Let me sally forth here. There are certain guys that have this vibe about them that’s creepy. Even if they’re not creepy, they have the vibe then they’re just as well creepy. Poor guy, he’s not creepy but he looks and sounds like he’s creepy, so he is creepy. The judgment of my wife is universal. If you look creepy or you sound creepy, then you are creepy. Even if you’re not, you have to prove yourself not creepy. The same thing applies to novelty. I don’t have a good nose for what is novel or not necessarily, except to say that I always judge it guilty until proven innocent.
At this point, I’m a little bit of a curmudgeon. If it’s not been here for a hundred years at least and inundated in our society or historically speaking in a way, a hundred years relate long enough, I should say a thousand, then I don’t trust it much. There are things that have to prove themselves innocent. One example of that is advertisements and other social media, anything like that. We think of advertisements as mundane and abnormal. We drive down the road and instead of looking at where we’re going, we spend probably 60% of our time looking at all the billboards and signs. If you were to go down the road and delete every sign that was an ad, there would be no signs. All the signs are ads.Everything that’s important in life can eventually become mundane. Click To Tweet
As realized that I’m being inundated with advertisements that teaches me in a mundane way, that my purpose on this earth is to buy, consume, and to acquire and achieve and do it through these means. That’s a mundane effect on our minds that is hard to appreciate and yet it is huge in the way it shapes us. If someone were to ask me, “Where do you get your values when it comes to achieving, accomplishing and consuming?” I would go to things of novelty. I would immediately think those have more impact. I would say, “There was this one commercial that everyone laughed at and remembered because it was novel.” I underestimate the power of the mundane and I overestimate the power of the novel when it comes to their effect on me.
There are a lot of different layers to this. One thing you hit on was the difference between having to have something versus being. There’s a great book I’m going to read next that my grandpa recommended called To Have or To Be? by Eric Fromm who is a German psychologist. It was written back probably a hundred years ago. I’m excited to check it out because it talks a lot about this thing. The thing that I’m more referring to that’s a little different than you’re referring to is the routine versus the variants in life.
The way you’re talking about novelty versus mundane is largely talking about what’s modern versus what’s proven over history. There’s some definite value to that. Also, even in your life, you got the RV and the camper and you’re going on these camping trips. It was awesome but part of that is the novelty of it. The newness of having a new adventure, having a new obsession, a thing that you’re into that’s awesome but then that wears off over time, becomes more mundane. That’s some of the tension I’m thinking about as well.
We do face that tension of maybe things souring as they go mundane. Is that what you mean?
Yeah. I’ve got a friend who is an awesome guy here in LA. I see this tension come up a lot in his life. He’s constantly chasing that new thing, whether it be a new movie that came out or a new friend to hang out with, a new coffee shop to go check out. In reality, that’s taking him away from the mundanity of the important work that’s before him. That’s an imbalance. For me, sometimes I’m almost on the opposite side because I try to be to discipline that I don’t allow novelty to come in. I don’t allow myself to watch movies. I love and am entertained by them, but I don’t see the immediate value in it and sometimes I’ll feel shame and guilt afterward for wasting time which isn’t good. That’s not right for me to feel shame and guilt over but I see that tension pop up because I know how addictive my personality can be. That’s one facet the way I experienced it.
The big cities have a lot more problems with this because there’s so much more coming at you all the time by way of ads but also by way of lots of people who are interesting and new and lots of things that are interesting and new. I would counter that about the camper to the fact that it is a little bit novel, but it’s not. It’s what our grandparents did and we’d said it was not cool and we’re doing it again because we see the value and what it brings us. This is a good test case scenario. I didn’t buy a camper because there was a sweet ad that convinced me that camping was the shizz. I bought a camper despite the ads I saw. The ads were either ads for sale of used campers that look terrible or ads that were stories people were giving me about camping. I’m like, “That sounds terrible.”
When I first started, my first biggest fear about camping was the pooh-poohs, which is the sewer hose and you have to dump the tank with the poop in it and there’s a hose that goes through. It’s called the poop hose and it stinks. I wasn’t interested at all in that whole thing and I’m like, “Why would you tow a living facility behind you?” It seems counterintuitive to efficiency. I’m dragging this thing across the world when I could stay in a location that already is built with a house and a room. Logically speaking, I was against it. My point is, my decision for the camper was a decision to refuse the novelty of whatever may be new and go back to the old, and that may be a novel move itself.
What you’re highlighting is that there’s a healthy and unhealthy novelty. It’s still new because it wasn’t a part of your life before.
There’s still value in it. That value will always be there for us. A pure move toward novelty would be that the only value in it is novelty. Let’s agree, there’s a spectrum of novelty and on that spectrum are things way left that are only valuable because they’re novel and there’s a spectrum on the way right of things that are only valuable because they’re mundane. Somewhere in the middle, you have this blend. Maybe that’s a bad spectrum, but either way. Another way to say that, there are probably two ways to analyze the value of something, and it’s in the intrinsic value within the actual thing itself, and then the extrinsic value, which is everyone’s perception of it. That’s what we’re talking about, the extrinsic value of things.
That’s the thing that’s important to highlight because it’s not to say that novelty is a bad thing, it’s a blessing. I got to go on a ski trip and it was such a blessing and was a great change of pace and a great novelty to be able to appreciate. The tension is, there needs to be a healthy balance between the two. That’s one thing I’ve been thinking about, in regard to that balance, do you have any idea from your perspective on what the percentage is? Even the last one, we talked about work and rest. God created in six days and rested one. It’s a six-day of work and a one day of rest ratio that God instituted. As I was thinking about before, I would almost say novelty and mundane are almost similar in a lot of ways. I’m curious what your thoughts are on that.
If I were to judge the camper, for example intrinsically, it is valuable because it provides us rest and recovery. It is extrinsically valuable because it’s different from what we do. There is novelty there, and there probably always will be novelty. It’s built in the novelty because we live in the city, we work in the city, its run and when the weekend comes, woods, stillness, that’ll always be a feeling of novelty.
It wouldn’t be novelty if you guys lived in the RV. That was your home.
Honestly, we talked about it. If we lived in the RV, it wouldn’t be worth it. There is a clear line that if crossed, diminishes the value of the camper because of the diminishing value of the novelty. There are also activities that go along with that. If we worked in the camper and be working not rest. There’s a huge portion of novelty that allows us to unplug and feel rested and recovered. I don’t know the percentage of that.Creating is the novelty, the cultivating is the mundanity of taking care of what’s been created. Click To Tweet
When I was thinking about coming into this conversation, when I was thinking about this vacation, there is such a blessing in novelty because it brings newness to the mundane. It’s that breakup with the mundanity of daily life or weekly life to where that I’ve gotten space and perspective, I come back with a fresher, newer feel and sense and approach to it that gives me refreshed or renewed energy towards daily life. That’s such a value add for having novelty be a part of your life. That’s also showing a lot of the benefit of this dance between the two. There are a lot of things in daily life that are an unhealthy novelty.
That’s why it’s an important distinction to make between healthy and unhealthy. All of social media can be an unhealthy novelty. It’s, “What is the new picture? What is the new post? What is the new notification?” The alert of something new and that triggers the chemical response in our brains and that becomes addictive. We keep going and going to the well, you have to go more and more to the well to get the same chemical feedback. It becomes a bigger chain and cycle. That’s one of the biggest detriments of the novelty in daily life. Are there any things that come to mind on a daily level or practical level that you see novelty play out for you?
Novelty is extremely easy to jump in and out of. It’s easy to get that dopamine hit from and what we do is we shirk our responsibility oftentimes for novelty. This is huge. If our generation could grasp this, it would change everything. If you look at a group of college students and you say, “Everybody, give me your phones for an hour.” They’re all going to be extremely uncomfortable and some would probably die.
If you let them keep their phones for an hour and say, “Here’s your phone back for an hour. You can’t do anything but sit here,” all of them are going to be on their phones almost the entire time. What they’re going to be doing is, I bet you less than 10% of them will be looking for things that are mundane but intrinsically valuable. Most of them would be looking at things that are intrinsically almost not valuable at all, but extrinsically extremely interesting. That’s Instagram, social media, things like that.
It’s all a stream of novelty that makes us feel we’re important. We’re up to date and we know what’s going on. We’re in the know. We’re the it crowd. We’re important and accepted. For some reason, all of that comes from being up-to-date. When we’re separated from that, we lose the ability to create that sense of being, purpose, focus outside of the dopamine that comes from novelty. My point is, if you strip novelty away, it’s almost like we can’t function outside of it as well.
It seems technology has been a big driver in that. If you rewind the clock a hundred years, the pace of life and the expectations are much slower and the ability that you have to consume things is a lot lower. It’s almost a natural byproduct of where we’re at in modern society. If we aren’t intentional about it, we’re going to end up going astray too far towards novelty whereas before, maybe hundred years ago, but it could be that you went too far on the side of mundanity. You didn’t ever believe in doing anything novel.
There are people that way, that live. You know that many people live this way. There are people I know from little town Georgia who think that there are only two languages, English and Spanish. Europe doesn’t exist. Their entire worldview is small and mundane that they don’t get hyped about anything novel at all. Their life is one big, long, boring story and it’s crazy. It’s amazing the differences, you’ve got that on one side and on the other side, you’ve got this guy who’s glued to Instagram and misses everything important that happens right in front of his face.
You made a good point when you said shirking our responsibility. Responsibility is a thing that helps us have a good balance. It helps us not have life be about ourselves, but it does give us the need for both. Responsibility means we have to embrace the mundane because that’s how you get things done, by repetition over time. We also have a need for novelty or else we’ll get burned out because we need some newness infused here and there to keep us going with endurance. Responsibility plays a big part in that.
It’s interesting to me too how people use novelty to start disciplines and then they phase out. Diets are one huge novelty factory. It’s like, “Look at this dude diet.” As all these advertisement around it all looks awesome. Two weeks in, everyone realizes it’s the same thing they’ve ever done, which is tell themselves, “No,” and some other new way. At the end of the day, it is all telling themselves, “No.”
There’s a great quote by CS Lewis, and this is the one that I love repeating. I repeat it a lot because it’s true. He said, “The pleasure of novelty is by its nature, more subject than any other to the law of diminishing returns.” Meaning the more that you get whatever pleasure that novelty brings, the more you need to keep getting that pleasure. It has diminishing returns the more that you get up something. It is like a drug in that sense.
That’s what made me think about is drugs. This takes the conversation in a different direction. Novelty is different than it ever has been and probably will be continuing. What you’re saying is true in the world of pornography. For example, our granddads, maybe not our actual granddads, but that generation, when they looked at pornography, it was in a magazine. It was static and even then a little bit tasteful, not degrading and demeaning. When the internet came along, it changed pornography. Studies on pornography say that when you are looking at internet pornography, it is exponentially times more addictive than static pornography.
They attribute that to novelty. It’s the idea that if you keep flipping through these pictures or these videos, then you’ll see something you hadn’t seen before. That desire hyper routes the brain into all kinds of the world of ecstasy, “Maybe there will be something else I hadn’t seen before.” It’s a trick. At the end of the day, it’s all a lie to your brain. This is the definition of an addiction that your desire for something outweighs the ability for it to even pleasure you. The natural end of novelty is that it leads you to an addiction that is self-defeating because it creates in you a desire that can be fulfilled.The natural purpose of novelty is to reenergize, to grab our attention again. Click To Tweet
There’s so much evidence of what the effects are happening to society, not only logically with the breakdown of families and the diminishing value in marriage itself, but also in the epidemic rise of ED with the youth or men of this generation. They’ve chemically worn themselves out in that sense, which is crazy and sad.
That’s a good example of novelty taken to the extreme. What would be the tension between that and mundanity? Mundanity in that sphere would be marrying one woman and having sex with one woman for the rest of your life. Everyone would say and guys joke that that’s hell on earth. All the guys on their bachelor party sow the last wild oat they have because, for now and forevermore, I’m being locked up to this one woman. When I was getting married and the process of that, my dad, we had those dad and son conversations. One time I said, “People joke about getting locked up. I feel it’s the opposite.” He said, “It’s the opposite for you.” I’m a Christian. I was raised with Christian virtue. For me, marriage is freedom. It’s setting me free to finally be able to participate in that sector, whereas the world sees it as slavery because they see freedom as novelty and choice.
My dad sees freedom as commitment and mundanity. Those two differing perspectives are antagonistic to each other, and yet if you test each theory historically speaking to say, “Which one leads to the better life?” More inner peace, more fulfillment in that sector. Novelty is extremely a small part. Here’s the thing, it’s still a part because lingerie shops exist for a reason. Your wife needs to dress up sometimes. You need to dress up sometimes. You need to do stuff that’s new and fresh to keep the thing interesting. It is a part even there.
Jocko Willink, Discipline Equals Freedom, “That commitment unlocks the novelty that’s best for us, that’s healthy versus the unhealthy novelty.” It’s amazing how freeing and liberating that is. To create something that’s truly worth creating, it has to be created within a structure from which things are created. To make a great painting, it has to be a painting to be a great painting. That’s a structure that you get to create within. Similarly, when the novelty is in the structure of the mundanity and in its rightful place as a part of it not as the thing to pursue, that almost unlocks its best ability to serve the function it should in a lot of ways. That goes out to the quote, “Finding beauty in the mundane.” That’s our ability is to marry these two and say that we can find beauty in the mundanity and also embrace a healthy novelty in our daily life. In that vein of thought, what is finding beauty in the mundane for you? What does that look like in a daily level? What would be practical things that we can practice in our lives in this conversation?
Novelty is there for a reason, it is important. What we should probably say is that everything important in life eventually can become mundane because it’s almost always going to be a practice or discipline or intentional and it’s going to be fun. It is eventually going to get old. Everything ends up getting old. Novelty always helps reinvigorate. The natural purpose of novelty is probably to re-energize, to grab our attention again. If you find yourself burnt out in something but you know it’s important, then sprinkle some novelty in there and let that re-energize you to address the main problem.
The main problem is probably that you’ve detached from your why. The good proper use of novelty would be to catch people’s attention, almost rhetoric. Back in the old days of Greek rhetorician, Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, these guys started this whole school of rhetoric for their community. They started so the people who were antagonistic towards rhetoric and logic only know rhetoric. Let’s present our arguments ad hoc, A, B, C, D. Rhetoricians, they would say, “Here’s my argument, A, B, C and D.” They’re going to couch it in an appealing, winsome way. The difference is that novelty should be used wisely so that you don’t become rhetoricians who overuse their rhetoric to convince you something that’s false, using power for good that you attach something that’s meaningful.
This came to mind what Andy Crouch talks about in his book, Culture Making. He compares our two creational roles as creators and cultivators of culture. That’s also hitting the same thing. The creating is almost the novelty. The cultivating is the mundanity of taking care of what’s been created. Those are both important because if you don’t take care of what’s been created, it’s going to decay and diminish. It’s not only the creating, which is more the novel, it’s also taking care of what’s already been created and that’s more of the mundane, which is a cool way to think about it too. Beauty in the mundane in daily life, because that’s a great way to unlock it, is like, “How can we find beauty in the mundane so that we don’t have the cheap form of novelty, but we get the richer form of novelty and it’s in the right proportion?”
The answer is two stories. One, my wife and I love Winnie the Pooh, the old original cartoon, and even the movie, Christopher Robin. Have you seen that?
You’ve got to watch this movie. It is good. Did you watch Pooh growing up?
A little bit.
I can do the Pooh exercise well. I can do the whole Pooh thing. In the morning, he gets up and he goes, “Up, down, touch the ground.” He spins around, it’s awesome. The new movie is about Christopher Robin losing touch with wonder and his adultness. I thought it was awesome. It’s him losing touch with the novelty. We could replace the word novelty in this instance and in most instances with joy or interest or the perception of a child. What is it that the children see that adults don’t because we’re busy with our responsibilities? Novelty packages up wonder for us and sells it to us even though it’s not real. It’s like an advertisement for wonder. That’s what novelty is, it’s an ad for wonder. We don’t have the wonder. It’s an ad that shows us, “Look at all the wonder that’s intrinsic in this thing.” You’re like, “It’s awesome.” You lose touch with it. It burns out because it’s not real. It’s a momentary glimpse.
This is the thing, every time Winnie the Pooh gets a balloon, it’s like he’s got the balloon for the first time ever. There’s a scene in the movie where he wants the balloon and Christopher Robin is looking at Pooh like he’s a child going, “I have to get you a balloon to make you happy.” He gets him a balloon and they walk through with it. It’s important to Pooh. At one point, they get on the train and it gets caught in the doors as the doors whooshed closed. The train takes off and it gets ripped out of Pooh’s hand, and the balloon is outside trapped away from him now gone forever. Pooh looks at Christopher Robin and goes, “The balloon.”
Christopher Robin looks back at Pooh and he goes, “It’s just a balloon, Pooh.” Pooh goes, “It did make me happy.” It’s a moment where both me and my wife looked at each other and almost teared up and mouths wide open. It hits something deep into us about the value of life and that we as adults lose that wonder. It’s almost like every balloon you get is the first balloon you’ve ever had. That’s how God intended us to be and the fall has ruined it to where novelty is a signpost towards that wonder and it’s ripped off and used wrongly a lot of times, and sometimes it’s used rightly. It’s our duty to reinstill that in the mundane so that every time something happens, it happens as if for the first time.
The second story I’ll end with from my perspective is this quote from GK Chesterton about the way children have an insatiable desire for joy and for repetition. He uses the analogy of how when you make the mistake of pleasing a child, throwing them up and down, scratching their back, whatever it is, you make that mistake because they’re going to keep coming back to you saying, “Do it again.” You throw them up in the air and think it’s fun. After about 50 throws, you’re exhausted and they keep saying, “Do it again.” What is it about children that give them that insatiable desire for joy and insatiable ability to be pleased without it becoming stale? Adultness ruins that.
GK Chesterton used that analogy and said, “What it means to become an adult is that you grow old to the point that you’re older than your father.” God himself is our father and he has that insatiable desire for joy and yet we ourselves have grown older than him and look at him and go, “Why would you make the sun come up every day the same every time?” God is sitting here going, “I love it.” Every day he loves it as much as he did the day before. That was a huge practical takeaway for me when I work, write, make my bed, clean my house, take the camper on a trip, stare at God’s creation, read the Bible, talk to friends, record podcasts. Whatever it is I’m doing, if God’s joy is not in that moment, it’s probably my fault because there’s something in that moment to enjoy and my heart is hard.
Each day is truly new. If we look close enough, there’s always something new to be seen regardless if we’re doing the same thing every day. Every day is different. It takes us looking closer and being more eyes wide open versus shut and processing what’s already been done. We can categorize things as what’s already happened or we can see them with new childlike eyes of wonder and of curiosity saying, “What’s different about what I’m seeing right now?” There is something different.
That’s intentionality. GK Chesterton even uses as an example, when you see a robin in the world, the gift that God gave us as humans is naming. We can take a thing and name it and forevermore have the name of what it is. When we name things, we have power over it. When we get power, we feel arrogant. When we feel arrogant, we start to lose touch with even the value of whatever that thing was because now I’m ten times better than that. “I knew that thing was ten years ago before it was even cool.” That’s all arrogance and it kills the joy of the thing itself. Every time you see an apple or a robin that you’ve been programmed to know the name of, don’t accept that the apple is there because it should be there and it’s called an apple, therefore it’s there. Look at it as if that apple came to you from God himself and he made it fresh for you. That bird happened to fly in here so that you could see it and it doesn’t matter what it’s called, that bird right there is real. That intentionality is what focuses your mind.Novelty is an advertisement for wonder. Click To Tweet
We forget that an apple came from a tree somewhere in the world and someone had to pick it and take it to the store and then deliver it, all these crazy things in one apple. My AC kicked on the air because California is getting hot. The AC is a modern invention that didn’t happen by chance. People had to figure out how to put this thing together to give us cool air that keeps us being able to survive in hot desert places that we never would have lived in before because we didn’t have these things to keep our temperament and climate. You hit the nail on the head, intentionality, which is fitting. It’s funny how he came back to that, we did not plan that. That is the point of having intention in the tension. These tensions are married well when we live a life of intentionality.
A couple of things to end on from a practical standpoint. Some ideas that came to my mind is we can live with intentionality around novelty versus mundane is one. Slowing down in the day to recognize the things that are new, the things that are different, the things that are special and seeing that with childlike curiosity. The second thing is having that contemplative childlike view where that curious childlike view that sees things new and doesn’t categorize them in your mind.
It’s almost a layer of mindfulness that you don’t just live your life. We, Westerners, have thrown off that whole mindfulness thing too much. We need to re-instill that in our lives so that we live with this constant state of mindfulness. It means that your brain isn’t just accepting the next task it’s carrying with it into each task a certain cache, certain storage of items that are vital. Those items are a God consciousness, an acknowledgement of God. Number two, gratitude. If you don’t have gratitude to every moment of your life, you won’t be able to win that battle.
I’ll add three, his presence. Ultimately, it’s presence. How can I be fully in this moment?
What presence means is, you let go of the past completely and you let go the future completely. This moment right here is all that matters and that right there is a tough battle.
The other thing that came to my mind was the interview you did with Brigit Ritchie. She highlighted the fact that for driven people or people that are on the mundanity side, scheduling and prioritizing fun and play in life are vital. Those are such life-giving things that pay dividends in your work, whether you believe it or not. For all the people on that side of the spectrum, be serious about having fun and having play incorporate into your life because it’s important and that is a healthy balance of novelty. At the end of the day, the tagline is finding beauty in the mundane because that is a succinct way of marrying these two and having intentionality in it. We’re going to spend our whole lives figuring out this balance as much as you guys. We’re in this journey together and that’s the point of this show.
Everyone needs to know that what we’re not talking about is a hot beverage you put into a cup that is flavored like a fiction book.
I don’t get it.
Hot beverage you put into a cup flavored like a fiction book, novel tea. I’m working on my dad jokes. My wife says I’m not dad material yet, I’m working on it.
You know we’ve talked too long when the dad joke started coming out. We thank you all for being a part of this family. If you want a t-shirt, definitely grab one and send us a pic. Until next time, A-bomb. It’s been a pleasure. For all you following, we hope you have an up and coming week.
- Allison Trowbridge – previous episode
- Tensions of Life – past episode
- To Have or To Be?
- Discipline Equals Freedom
- Culture Making
- Brigit Ritchie – previous episode
About Adam Setser
Vocationally I am a Financial Advisor at The Kerrigan Group, but my background is in divinity. I graduated from The Masters University in Los Angeles with my BA in Biblical Languages, and am on temporary leave from my MA in Theology at SBTS.
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