In this episode, Adam and Thane talk through what marriage will be like for Adam and Faith. From expectations, to fears, to future projections, to how marriage will change him, and more.

Weddings are always life-changing events, but they are celebrations worth cherishing. Join us, as Adam takes the step into this next season of life.


“I’ve had my moments of doubts, but they were very very few and far between and almost always was a result of my sin in some way – of my selfishness or discontentment.”  – Adam Setser

“I am a product, at this point in my life, of the power of commitment.”  – Adam Setser

“At the end of the day, the only way you’re ever going to accomplish anything is to commit. And the only way you can commit is to say no to the thousand other things you could do, but you’re choosing not to do.”  – Adam Setser

“I can’t wait to learn what God has for both of us in this marriage, through a godly commitment to each other.”  – Adam Setser

“The only way you can commit to something truly is to believe in why you’re doing it.”  – Adam Setser

“What we have to focus on is values – shared values.”  – Thane Ringler

“If it’s not based on values it’s based on emotion or feeling, and that’s going to be misleading because you can’t know who he/she is going to be in 10 years.”  – Thane Ringler

“I’ve got no fear of anything right now, because I know where my feet are planted, I know where her feet are planted, and I know what I’ve been through.”  – Adam Setser

“I didn’t fall in love with Faith because she was the image of something that could be lost.”  – Adam Setser

“If I’m a tool used by God and He has already sovereignly dictated my life – paired with my responsibility – God’s going to use me for what He wants.”  – Thane Ringler

“I’m on mission in the Kingdom and that’s all that matters.”  – Thane Ringler

“People are searching for peace outside of a God-given role of peace.”  – Adam Setser

“I am afraid of letting her down. I know I’m going to sin against her, and I’m already heartbroken by that. To me she deserves perfection and I know I can’t do that.”  – Adam Setser

“It’s like a crash-course in conflict resolution, all day every day.”  – Thane Ringler

“Money can’t buy happiness, but financial stability will buy you peace.”  – Adam Setser

“I am where I am because of other people.”  – Adam Setser

Show Notes

Steeped Coffee
Ep. #53 – Pursuing Joy
Light – 2nd Phone Option
Free Write – Keyboard
Broisode with Barry Moore

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4:00 – Adam’s Wedding!
8:30 – Pre-Wedding Thoughts
9:00 – How Adam is Approaching Marriage
17:30 – How To Think About a Future Spouse
19:00 – Adam’s Projection on How Marriage Changes Him
22:00 – What Adam’s Nervous About
33:00 – Why Adam’s Excited For Faith
38:00 – Closing Remarks